Thanks, Kathy! This life-journey is ongoing so l’m celebrating a milestone here. And writing is a particular love of mine so am happy to share it here!
Thanks, Kathy! This life-journey is ongoing so l’m celebrating a milestone here. And writing is a particular love of mine so am happy to share it here!
The triumph of self-belief and your convictions. Your true self : kind, hopeful, generous – you have never veered despite the challenges. May we always strive for this.
Thanks, Diana! I was trying to convey the fact that everyone struggles and hope that some people who read this realize that you can get to your destination even if the journey is daunting. Sometimes, we need other people to tell us that it is achievable. Encouragement makes every struggle more bearable.
The triumph of self-belief and your convictions. Your true self : kind, hopeful, generous – you have never veered despite the challenges. May we always strive for this.
Thanks, Diana! I was trying to convey the fact that everyone struggles and hope that some people who read this realize that you can get to your destination even if the journey is daunting. Sometimes, we need other people to tell us that it is achievable. Encouragement makes every struggle more bearable.
Thank you so much, Cherie! There was a point in the process of writing this, when I wondered if it would help to write it in the first place but I felt very strongly that bullies shouldn’t be allowed to do what they do. Love the theme of your blog too 🙂
Thank you so much, Cherie! There was a point in the process of writing this, when I wondered if it would help to write it in the first place but I felt very strongly that bullies shouldn’t be allowed to do what they do. Love the theme of your blog too 🙂
I think it is about asking what we want to teach our children. I was struggling for an example that we can all relate to. Then superheroes came to mind!
I know, cheriewhite. But the idea that so many spiritual traditions revere it was a reminder that humility is so important and we need to bring it back. Glad you like the post. Pet topic of mine:)
You’re absolutely right! I look forward to reading more on your pet topic. 🙂
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You may be the only one who wants me to go on and on about that one. Because I just could go on and on 😉
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Awesome. But you could do it in seperate posts- in chunks. That’d be easier on you and the reader as well, and give them something to look forward to. 🙂
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Hmm. You have given me a lot to think about. Thanks!
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You’re very welcome, Sue. <3
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Very beautiful and well-written post! And I believe this virus will end at some point and we’re only being tested right now.
Wow! This post resonates with me so much! During those years I was severely bullied, my voice was silenced because I knew that if I said the wrong thing, I’d get hurt, or maybe worse. I get angry at myself when I look back. Like you, as I’ve gotten older, I’ve worried less and less about what people think and now, I’m VERY outspoken. But I think part of it comes from being bullied and I’ve “made it a point” not to be silent. If I don’t like something, I say it without apology or fear. I’m not afraid to say no or to ask for what I want. It comes from the refusal to ever again be anyone’s doormat.
Thanks for sharing, Cherie. The thing I have realized in becoming a blog writer and for me, specifically, is that I like to think about things. I also love to write. It is my communication weapon so when you say it resonates with you it is absolutely amazing. Finding a tribe of people who love to write and can’t keep quiet is so great. Especially as we can’t always be real if we constantly worry about how every single person will react. It is, as I said in the piece, about us finding our respective voices so the vacuum isn’t filled with less worthy and ’empty’ voices. You know the ones who say nothing when they say something? 😉
Absolutely. I think that comes with learning to love and accept yourself just the way you are. With confidence comes freedom!
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Wow! This post resonates with me so much! During those years I was severely bullied, my voice was silenced because I knew that if I said the wrong thing, I’d get hurt, or maybe worse. I get angry at myself when I look back. Like you, as I’ve gotten older, I’ve worried less and less about what people think and now, I’m VERY outspoken. But I think part of it comes from being bullied and I’ve “made it a point” not to be silent. If I don’t like something, I say it without apology or fear. I’m not afraid to say no or to ask for what I want. It comes from the refusal to ever again be anyone’s doormat.
Thanks for sharing, Cherie. The thing I have realized in becoming a blog writer and for me, specifically, is that I like to think about things. I also love to write. It is my communication weapon so when you say it resonates with you it is absolutely amazing. Finding a tribe of people who love to write and can’t keep quiet is so great. Especially as we can’t always be real if we constantly worry about how every single person will react. It is, as I said in the piece, about us finding our respective voices so the vacuum isn’t filled with less worthy and ’empty’ voices. You know the ones who say nothing when they say something? 😉
Absolutely. I think that comes with learning to love and accept yourself just the way you are. With confidence comes freedom!
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Thanks! Nothing makes me happier than knowing that my posts are useful. The more feedback l get on what readers enjoy, the more l can write about the same subject-matter.
Such a wonderful post, Sue! And I so agree! Everyone is different. No two people are the same and we all must embrace differences. If everyone were the same, this world would be a boring place to live in. I love sausage and pepperoni pizza, but I wouldn’t want to eat it everyday. People need to embrace variety. Wishing you a very happy and prosperous new year!
I can’t believe l took so long to reply to you. The comment went to my spam folder. I just discovered your message. So sorry. Anyway, l am pleased you saw my point about people being different. We don’t have to agree on everything to live side by side. Have a good year too!
I completely understand, Sue. I’ve had the same thing happen. 😊 ❤
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Such a wonderful post, Sue! And I so agree! Everyone is different. No two people are the same and we all must embrace differences. If everyone were the same, this world would be a boring place to live in. I love sausage and pepperoni pizza, but I wouldn’t want to eat it everyday. People need to embrace variety. Wishing you a very happy and prosperous new year!
I can’t believe l took so long to reply to you. The comment went to my spam folder. I just discovered your message. So sorry. Anyway, l am pleased you saw my point about people being different. We don’t have to agree on everything to live side by side. Have a good year too!
Beautiful post 😚 Change is so often feared, when really it’s a blessing in disguise, and it pushes us to grow out of our comfort zones to embrace the person that we are meant to become in the future. I loved reading this. Question though, on my screen it says “View Sue’s Life for the full post”. How did you do that?
Thanks for your lovely comment. Glad you see change the way you do. As to your question about the setting on your screen, l am trying to figure it out myself. I was experimenting with a variety of plugins and widgets. The next time l posted a blog post, the format changed. I am trying to figure out what l did. Once l figure it out l will certainly let you know. Can you tell my strength is as a writer😉
You cannot fight fire with fire. Similarly you cannot fight hate with hate. Hate only begets more hate. Just like a child throwing a tantrum – the only way to guide people out of it is with love and understanding. Beautiful message Sue 🙏
Thanks, AP2. Sometimes, it is easy to practice this philosophy. On other days, people are just so nasty I think to myself that I am too much of an idealist. That I should just give up trying. But then if everyone gives up, we have a hateful world mired in misery.
I am so happy to be part of your experience, Sebastian! It is such an honor to help invoke memories. And memories of beauty? Beauty is what makes life worth living!
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Great post, Sue, about a subject I had not read about before. Agreed, humility is so important, and the leaders who have possessed it in spades are unforgettable and inspiring. Thanks for sharing! 🌞
Thanks so much, Lisa! Sorry I didn’t reply earlier. My spam filter is so powerful.You’re right that not a lot is said about humility and so it is a newer area of exploration to link humility and leadership. And yet, in the span of mankind we have so many diverse examples of humble leadership. Thanks for reading and commenting 🙂
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Great post, Sue. You’re right, in recent years, it feels like it’s gotten out of control, when in fact it’s always been a big problem. It’s just more blatant now, especially in the political arena. 🌞
I always say that the sign of a truly civilized society is one where we can conduct dialogue in a respectful manner. We can hold differing views but once we descend into aggression, even when it is not physical, we have revealed our coarseness. Thanks for the feedback, Lisa!
Lisa, it is really a struggle sometimes. What I believe is that most of us have the same dreams and desires. So, we shouldn’t ever be blind to hidden agendas of the power-hungry. A combination of loving our fellow man and a critical outlook on anyone who wants us to hate on others is key. When we hate, it eats us up inside. I am so glad you liked the post!
You’re a brave lady. It was tough enough deciding where I wanted to live & moving across the same country for me! I can’t imaging moving to another country. Good for you for facing fears and embracing a new way of being! 🌞
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Thanks, Lisa! My biscotti is a way to reintroduce slow eating into our lives. It is about one cookie at a time and feeling satisfied at the end of one cookie! There’s a lot of background about why I bake what I do but the idea works for my body🙂
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Well written Sue! You are the captain of your soul 💕
Thanks, Kathy! This life-journey is ongoing so l’m celebrating a milestone here. And writing is a particular love of mine so am happy to share it here!
Well written Sue! You are the captain of your soul 💕
Thanks, Kathy! This life-journey is ongoing so l’m celebrating a milestone here. And writing is a particular love of mine so am happy to share it here!
The triumph of self-belief and your convictions. Your true self : kind, hopeful, generous – you have never veered despite the challenges. May we always strive for this.
Thanks, Diana! I was trying to convey the fact that everyone struggles and hope that some people who read this realize that you can get to your destination even if the journey is daunting. Sometimes, we need other people to tell us that it is achievable. Encouragement makes every struggle more bearable.
The triumph of self-belief and your convictions. Your true self : kind, hopeful, generous – you have never veered despite the challenges. May we always strive for this.
Thanks, Diana! I was trying to convey the fact that everyone struggles and hope that some people who read this realize that you can get to your destination even if the journey is daunting. Sometimes, we need other people to tell us that it is achievable. Encouragement makes every struggle more bearable.
Such a powerful and well-written post, Sue! As a survivor of bullying, I can appreciate this post! Thank you for posting!
Thank you so much, Cherie! There was a point in the process of writing this, when I wondered if it would help to write it in the first place but I felt very strongly that bullies shouldn’t be allowed to do what they do. Love the theme of your blog too 🙂
Thank you so much, Sue!
You’re very welcome! And thank you for such kind words!
Such a powerful and well-written post, Sue! As a survivor of bullying, I can appreciate this post! Thank you for posting!
Thank you so much, Cherie! There was a point in the process of writing this, when I wondered if it would help to write it in the first place but I felt very strongly that bullies shouldn’t be allowed to do what they do. Love the theme of your blog too 🙂
Thank you so much, Sue!
You’re very welcome! And thank you for such kind words!
Lovely post! And I so agree! Sadly, so many in the world need to read and heed this!
I think it is about asking what we want to teach our children. I was struggling for an example that we can all relate to. Then superheroes came to mind!
I agree. Abe Lincoln and Roosevelt were great examples I think. They both had good integrity and Lincoln, sadly, was murdered for that integrity.
Such a beautiful, beautiful post! Humility seems to be a lost virtue nowadays!
I know, cheriewhite. But the idea that so many spiritual traditions revere it was a reminder that humility is so important and we need to bring it back. Glad you like the post. Pet topic of mine:)
You’re absolutely right! I look forward to reading more on your pet topic. 🙂
You may be the only one who wants me to go on and on about that one. Because I just could go on and on 😉
Awesome. But you could do it in seperate posts- in chunks. That’d be easier on you and the reader as well, and give them something to look forward to. 🙂
Hmm. You have given me a lot to think about. Thanks!
You’re very welcome, Sue. <3
Very beautiful and well-written post! And I believe this virus will end at some point and we’re only being tested right now.
Yes, cheriewhite. I am a new blogger and so appreciate your kind, kind encouragement.
You’re very welcome, Sue!
Yes, cheriewhite. I am a new blogger and so appreciate your kind, kind encouragement.
You’re very welcome, Sue!
Wow! This post resonates with me so much! During those years I was severely bullied, my voice was silenced because I knew that if I said the wrong thing, I’d get hurt, or maybe worse. I get angry at myself when I look back. Like you, as I’ve gotten older, I’ve worried less and less about what people think and now, I’m VERY outspoken. But I think part of it comes from being bullied and I’ve “made it a point” not to be silent. If I don’t like something, I say it without apology or fear. I’m not afraid to say no or to ask for what I want. It comes from the refusal to ever again be anyone’s doormat.
Thanks for sharing, Cherie. The thing I have realized in becoming a blog writer and for me, specifically, is that I like to think about things. I also love to write. It is my communication weapon so when you say it resonates with you it is absolutely amazing. Finding a tribe of people who love to write and can’t keep quiet is so great. Especially as we can’t always be real if we constantly worry about how every single person will react. It is, as I said in the piece, about us finding our respective voices so the vacuum isn’t filled with less worthy and ’empty’ voices. You know the ones who say nothing when they say something? 😉
Absolutely. I think that comes with learning to love and accept yourself just the way you are. With confidence comes freedom!
Wow! This post resonates with me so much! During those years I was severely bullied, my voice was silenced because I knew that if I said the wrong thing, I’d get hurt, or maybe worse. I get angry at myself when I look back. Like you, as I’ve gotten older, I’ve worried less and less about what people think and now, I’m VERY outspoken. But I think part of it comes from being bullied and I’ve “made it a point” not to be silent. If I don’t like something, I say it without apology or fear. I’m not afraid to say no or to ask for what I want. It comes from the refusal to ever again be anyone’s doormat.
Thanks for sharing, Cherie. The thing I have realized in becoming a blog writer and for me, specifically, is that I like to think about things. I also love to write. It is my communication weapon so when you say it resonates with you it is absolutely amazing. Finding a tribe of people who love to write and can’t keep quiet is so great. Especially as we can’t always be real if we constantly worry about how every single person will react. It is, as I said in the piece, about us finding our respective voices so the vacuum isn’t filled with less worthy and ’empty’ voices. You know the ones who say nothing when they say something? 😉
Absolutely. I think that comes with learning to love and accept yourself just the way you are. With confidence comes freedom!
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Nice post.
Thanks! Nothing makes me happier than knowing that my posts are useful. The more feedback l get on what readers enjoy, the more l can write about the same subject-matter.
Such a wonderful post, Sue! And I so agree! Everyone is different. No two people are the same and we all must embrace differences. If everyone were the same, this world would be a boring place to live in. I love sausage and pepperoni pizza, but I wouldn’t want to eat it everyday. People need to embrace variety. Wishing you a very happy and prosperous new year!
I can’t believe l took so long to reply to you. The comment went to my spam folder. I just discovered your message. So sorry. Anyway, l am pleased you saw my point about people being different. We don’t have to agree on everything to live side by side. Have a good year too!
I completely understand, Sue. I’ve had the same thing happen. 😊 ❤
Such a wonderful post, Sue! And I so agree! Everyone is different. No two people are the same and we all must embrace differences. If everyone were the same, this world would be a boring place to live in. I love sausage and pepperoni pizza, but I wouldn’t want to eat it everyday. People need to embrace variety. Wishing you a very happy and prosperous new year!
I can’t believe l took so long to reply to you. The comment went to my spam folder. I just discovered your message. So sorry. Anyway, l am pleased you saw my point about people being different. We don’t have to agree on everything to live side by side. Have a good year too!
I completely understand, Sue. I’ve had the same thing happen. 😊 ❤
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Beautiful post 😚 Change is so often feared, when really it’s a blessing in disguise, and it pushes us to grow out of our comfort zones to embrace the person that we are meant to become in the future. I loved reading this. Question though, on my screen it says “View Sue’s Life for the full post”. How did you do that?
Thanks for your lovely comment. Glad you see change the way you do. As to your question about the setting on your screen, l am trying to figure it out myself. I was experimenting with a variety of plugins and widgets. The next time l posted a blog post, the format changed. I am trying to figure out what l did. Once l figure it out l will certainly let you know. Can you tell my strength is as a writer😉
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You cannot fight fire with fire. Similarly you cannot fight hate with hate. Hate only begets more hate. Just like a child throwing a tantrum – the only way to guide people out of it is with love and understanding. Beautiful message Sue 🙏
Thanks, AP2. Sometimes, it is easy to practice this philosophy. On other days, people are just so nasty I think to myself that I am too much of an idealist. That I should just give up trying. But then if everyone gives up, we have a hateful world mired in misery.
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You helped me remember the beauty of autumn.
I am so happy to be part of your experience, Sebastian! It is such an honor to help invoke memories. And memories of beauty? Beauty is what makes life worth living!
Thank you!
You are very welcome. Hope this post gives you ideas on how to put more veggies in your diet🙂
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Great post, Sue, about a subject I had not read about before. Agreed, humility is so important, and the leaders who have possessed it in spades are unforgettable and inspiring. Thanks for sharing! 🌞
Thanks so much, Lisa! Sorry I didn’t reply earlier. My spam filter is so powerful.You’re right that not a lot is said about humility and so it is a newer area of exploration to link humility and leadership. And yet, in the span of mankind we have so many diverse examples of humble leadership. Thanks for reading and commenting 🙂
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Great post, Sue. You’re right, in recent years, it feels like it’s gotten out of control, when in fact it’s always been a big problem. It’s just more blatant now, especially in the political arena. 🌞
I always say that the sign of a truly civilized society is one where we can conduct dialogue in a respectful manner. We can hold differing views but once we descend into aggression, even when it is not physical, we have revealed our coarseness. Thanks for the feedback, Lisa!
Of course, and good point. 🌞
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What a beautiful post, Sue. Watching American tv, it’s sometimes hard to believe there are good people here, right? 🌞
Lisa, it is really a struggle sometimes. What I believe is that most of us have the same dreams and desires. So, we shouldn’t ever be blind to hidden agendas of the power-hungry. A combination of loving our fellow man and a critical outlook on anyone who wants us to hate on others is key. When we hate, it eats us up inside. I am so glad you liked the post!
I couldn’t agree more, Sue. It’s great to meet another kindred spirit! 🌞
Lovely that we are kindred spirits. I wonder if there are more of us out there🌻
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You’re a brave lady. It was tough enough deciding where I wanted to live & moving across the same country for me! I can’t imaging moving to another country. Good for you for facing fears and embracing a new way of being! 🌞
Thanks, Lisa. I met my husband in Singapore and I was pretty comfortable there. However, I love my husband to bits. So here we are. Forging ahead❤️
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Really good tips, Sue. Your biscotti looks delicious! 🌞
Thanks, Lisa! My biscotti is a way to reintroduce slow eating into our lives. It is about one cookie at a time and feeling satisfied at the end of one cookie! There’s a lot of background about why I bake what I do but the idea works for my body🙂
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